This article contains graphic descriptions of physical and sexual assault. Conversations around sexual and physical violence have become mainstream in recent years, bringing with it positive change like ‘Claire’s Law’, the ‘#MeToo’ Movement and the world-leading Domestic Abuse (Scotland) Act 2018. " I remember thinking that he was going to kill me. I was fearing for my life." But for many gay men, their experiences of abuse remain underreported, unsupported and poorly underst